내남자와 핫텁을..& 내남자의 친구커플.

2019. 12. 29.

어제 저녁에 내남자가 갑작스럽게 핫텁을 하고싶다고...

그래서 내가 욕탕에 뜨거운물을 받아서 엡솜솔트도 넣고, 녹차 티백도 넣고...

나는 뜨거운 물에 오래있지 못하는 체질이라 대략 15분정도 뜨거운물에 몸을 담그고 나왔다. 내남자는 핫텁을 즐기는듯...

 

 

 

 

 

 

오늘은 내남자의 친구커플이 사는 픽틴지역으로 내남자의 차를타고 다녀왔다. 아침에 간단하게 시리얼을 먹고는 두시간반정도의 운전으로 도착한 내남자의 친구집...호수가 바로 앞이네...

내남자의 친구 질과 그의 아내 주디...두사람이 토론토에 그릭타운에 오랫동안 살다가, 은퇴를 한후에 픽튼으로 이사를 했다는...질은 경찰시큐리티관련부서에서 근무하다가 은퇴한듯하고, 주디는 은행일을 하다가 은퇴했다는듯한데..주디는 화가로 살면서 스튜디오를 운영하고 있다. 그녀의 스튜디오를 보여주고 현재하고있는 인물화 프로젝트등도 보여주는데... 유페라는 플라스틱같은 수채화 종이 제질에 아크릴오일같은 칼라로 그린 인물화가 보여주는 텍스트가 눈길을 끈다. 

 

질은 고양이를 자식처럼 생각하고 기르는 고양이 애호가 이면서, 훌륭한 커뮤니케이션 스킬을 가진 토스트마스타로 인정받는 상장도 가지고 있고...두사람은 여행을 좋아하는사람들인듯하다. 그들의 집에서 간단한 핑거푸드로 점심을 약간한다음에 트렌트에 있는 타이 스시레스토랑애서 늦은 점심을 같이하고는 사진도 같이 찍고.... 헤어져서 ..내남자가 운전해서 집으로 돌아왔다.

 

2019-12-29 - 3 days left in 2019 by Michel

2019. 12. 30.

 

On Friday evening, I was feeling like having a hot bath to relax. My man poured hot water in the tub, added salts and a green tea bag. I lighted candles and put some classical music on. I sat down in the tub and it was so relaxing. My Man joined me for 15 minutes. We held and caressed each other. I stayed a bit longer and played with the little ducks for fun. My Man took pictures of me. I do enjoy and love our special intimacy as a couple. It feels so good and right to be together.

 

Yesterday, we drove to Picton (about 2 hours drive east of Toronto) to visit my long-time friends Gilles and Judy. I met Gilles in the early 1990s on a flight going from Toronto North Bay where we both lived. We became friends. And Gilles was the first straight man to whom I came out of the closet. And he was very accepting and understanding. In 1994, we went on a special trip «on the footstep of Thomas Jefferson »to visit Washington and the State of Virginia. At that time, he met a nice woman who became his wife few years later. Gilles moved to Toronto. When I moved to Ottawa, Gilles and Judy used his family in Ottawa few times per year and they used to stay with my partner and I. I still remember some good moments happening on. New-Year’s Eve and during those visits. Both retired and moved from Toronto to Prince-Edward County. My ex-partner and I visited them for a long weekend at least once a year. I was very proud to introduce them to my new partner Bruce. I knew that we would all get along very well. My friends have various interests common to ours: arts and painting, travelling, good human values. The drive there and back was good. We listened to music from my IPhone. And my Man held my hand most of the way.

 

This morning my Man came with me to the medical clinic to address a personal medical problem. We both waited to see the doctor. While he was in the exam room, I thought seriously about my health issue and the importance of living healthy. I want to take charge of my health to give me a better quality of life with my Man. The doctor prescribed me a new virtual system to monitor my blood sugar level and I will do everything necessary to keep it down by first monitoring it and then take appropriate actions. My personal Nurse Practitioner will also be happy with the outcome.

 

Thank you Bruce for being in my life and it gives me motivation to have better lifestyle habits and good health for both of us. I love you now and I want this to last as long as possible.